I have been married for 30 years as of 2021. My marriage has brought a lot of trials into my life. My wife was a widower when we met. She had 2 children aged 5 and 6. They all had suffered great abuse under her first marriage. Although Kellie Ann had met Yeshua 4 years before we met she still carried a lot of woundedness and so did the children. I fell in love with Kellie Ann because of her great faith and reliance on Yeshua. She had and still has a strong walk with Yeshua. The Lord showed me she was one for me to marry. During our year of being engaged, I saw a glimpse of her woundedness when after a very stressful Thanksgiving dinner, she had a PTSD episode. I wept with all the pain that surfaced in her memory. I knew I would need to stay close to Yeshua myself to help her and the children through their healing process. I was resolved to be Yeshua’s loving hands and feet towards them. Today, I am trained in helping those in emotional distress and their caregivers. As a spouse to a highly abused wife, I have learned new ways to communicate and support my wife when she is triggered by her woundedness.